Deanne Carson, a sexuality educator, ignited a significant controversy when she suggested that parents should seek their children’s consent before changing their nappies. Carson believes that even though babies cannot verbally say “yes,” their body language and other nonverbal signals can indicate their agreement.
In an interview with ABC News in 2018, Carson recommended that parents ask their babies, “Is it okay?” before changing a nappy. She advised waiting for eye contact and observing body language to ensure that the child feels acknowledged.
However, Carson’s approach raised questions. What if a baby’s body language suggests they don’t want a change? Would parents leave their child in a dirty nappy until they “consent”?
Many parents quickly voiced their opposition to the idea, deeming it “absurd.” Social media users mocked Carson’s suggestion, arguing that seeking permission from children in these situations would be impractical.
Despite the backlash, some individuals acknowledged the importance of teaching consent. Carson’s concept was even adopted by the childcare chain Only About Children, which advised parents to ask for help when changing a baby’s nappy.
They suggested activities to stimulate babies’ senses and promote independence, such as encouraging children to remove their own nappies or clean themselves.
This discussion highlights the challenges of reconciling theoretical concepts with practical parenting. While consent education is essential, Carson’s method has left many questioning its applicability.
What are your thoughts? Should parents ask their kids for permission before changing their nappies?
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